Monday, March 23, 2015

Why is prostate massage pleasurable?

The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center. Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of his penis or "lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver", but in the sexual empowerment it bestows on the "giver".

read more Sacred Spot Massage NOTE: Roshi does NOT stimulate ejaculation as mentioned in this article but the rest is brilliant.

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Monday, March 16, 2015

8 Elements training Video/Audio

This Audio/Video can help you chanting the 8 elements Kan, Li, Chen, Tui, Kun, Ken, Sun, Chien. Very powerfull!!! Helps to get you thinking with your belly. I Have added some simple cards to remember how to do the exercise and which the 8 Elements of Nature are . Enjoy and share. Roshi

8 Elements Video/Audio  

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Thursday, March 12, 2015

LETS TALK ABOUT SEX – PROSTAATMASSAGE

Het anus-gebied bij de man een no go? In een gastartikel op vrouwonline legt erotisch masseur Rob uit hoe je een prostaatmassage kan geven. Het schijnt een geweldige sensatie voor een man te zijn. Nieuwsgierig? Lees het artikel van vrouwonlineRobs massagesalon De Slaunge. 
“Voordat ik je uit ga leggen hoe je dit het beste kunt doen geef ik je eerst een gouden tip.
Vraag liever niet aan een man of je hem een prostaat massage mag geven! Hij zal waarschijnlijk nee zeggen. Voor hem is het anus gebied een ‘no go‘ gebied. Ook zullen de meeste mannen het als een homoseksuele handel zien. Dat is natuurlijk onzin).”
Voorbereiding
“Je moet het gewoon doen! Zonder woorden gewoon voorzichtig en langzaam handelen. Enkele voorbereidingen zijn wel aan te raden. Voor de vrouw geldt dat je schone en geknipte nagels hebt ( zonder steentjes en dergelijken op je nagel zoals versiering ). Je kunt een condoom of latex handschoen (waarvan je de wijs- en middelvingers afknipt) gebruiken. Zorg dat hij schoon en niet al te lang geleden naar het toilet is geweest voor de grote boodschap.”
Perineum
“Tijdens jullie ‘normale’ sekshandelingen ga jij je vooral focussen op het perineum. Dit is het gebied tussen de ballen en de anus. Gebruik wat speeksel of glijmiddel of olie en gebruik je middel en wijsvinger om vervolgens zachtjes maar kordaat zijn perineum te masseren. Met je vrije hand kan je zijn penis mee masseren. Wissel dit af met klop bewegingen met beide vingers. Zorg dat je niet te veel met de penis bezig bent want je wil naar de prostaat werken en voorkomen dat hij vroegtijdig zal ejaculeren.”
Voorzichtig van start
“Masseer subtiel zo nou en dan zijn anus met je wijs en/of middelvinger. Na enige tijd van afwisselend zijn perineum en zijn anus te hebben gemasseerd ga je voorzichtig, liefst met je wijsvinger (deze is het smalst) en wat glijmiddel, olie of speeksel de anus binnen. Je kunt hem ook rimmen (met de tong de anus masseren), iets dat zeer erotisch en ontspannend voor beiden werkt.”
Prostaat masseren
“Om hem af te leiden kan je gelijktijdig even op zijn eikel blazen, om vervolgens met je wijsvinger ‘kom maar hier’ bewegingen te maken. Net om de hoek in het anus gebied zal je een zachte knobbel voelen. Dit is zijn prostaat zijn G-spot. Je masseert deze knobbel zachtjes. Als zijn anus goed is ontspannen (dus niet meer ‘strak’ voelt ), kan je licht stotende bewegingen maken afgewisseld met masseren.”
Wennen
“Zoals ik dit hier heb geschreven moet je bij de uitvoering wel de tijd nemen. Voor hem zal dit, meestal, de eerste keer zijn dat het gebied rond zijn anus en zijn prostaat op deze manier worden verwend. Gun hem de tijd om te wennen. Het doel van prostaatmassage is euforische opwinding en wat hem tot een multi orgastische man kan maken wat kan eindigen in meerdere inwendige orgasmes zonder ejaculatie. Let wel dat je met het diepste ‘zijn’ van de man bezig bent dus behandel dit met respect en liefde.”
“Tot slot: heb geduld samen, geen oordelen zodat jullie samen een nieuwe dimensie aan jullie seksleven kunnen toevoegen.”
Meer weten over prostaatmassages? Neem een kijkje op de website http://www.deslaunge.com/van Robs massagesalon De Slaunge.

Sunday, March 8, 2015

Nothingness (Wu Chi) Bliss experience; Imprint

An imprint I got from Alex Vartman thenewtantra.com at the men core workshop  when he openly spoke about himself at the end of the retreat. When he spoke about “there is nothing behind your eyes”, nothing. No worries, no thoughts.  When he said this , I felt my belly go very soft and sensual/orgasmic. It spread out like a shower into my whole body. A great down to earth feeling and light feeling…hmmmm.

How did I found out it was an imprint or felt this same feeling again and even stronger?

Well; I did found out only recently playing sexual with a beautifull woman. We played with energy… very strong energy. She talked in a NO language (just making sounds; my daughter often does the same with me talking with no real meanings to the words amazing stuff makes my brains being closed and open to new dimensions) I did talk back in real words telling her I was in indian country beautifull, with hills water etc .She felt like and indian woman. This talking of mine would make  our energy taking of even stronger. We ended up in strong energy fucking with nice orgasms.. and more…


The more we got into all of this the more I started feeling this nothingness. To describe nothingness is kind of difficult when there is nothing. It does feel very nice… like being in a 3D black space… What  is remarkable, is that I feel aware and present. The days after I still felt & feel this energy. Light & down to earth, happy and healthy.

Roshi

Thursday, March 5, 2015

Non-Ejaculating for Men & the Enormous Benefits

Non-Ejaculating for Men & the enormous benefits

I have seen a growing Interest in several FB groups on non-ejaculating and as such, I would like to share my experiences and thoughts on this particular subject.
I haven’t had what most people consider to be a standard, contact based ejaculation for quite some time. As as result, I have experienced so many benefits. These benefits have directly affected my energy levels as well as my overall awareness. The longer I continue to prevent ejaculation, the more my energy and awareness levels continue to grow. It is also increasing the intensity of my orgasms as well. I want to share, through my personal experiences, what the benefits I have noticed by avoiding ejaculating during various sexual activities.

The Benefits:
  • -      More overall energy
  • -      Deeper, more restful sleep
  • -      Improved overall health
  • -      Dramatically increased sexual stamina and performance
  • -      Heightened awareness in regard to my sexual desires
  • -      Increased happiness in all aspects of my life and reduced stress levels
  • -      Greater sense of self confidence and a desire to push myself beyond previous limitations
  • -      Easier to resist being pulled into world and relationship drama
  • -      Greater sense of center within my core (belly) and with my thoughts
  • -      The Ability to experience longer, more intense orgasms from multiple forms of stimulation
  • -      Increased sexual energy and understanding of the sexual energies of myself and others
  • -      Greater understanding and ability to manipulate and play with my own inner energy
  • -      My Lingam is now extremely sensitive giving me the ability to identify the various sensitive spots within a woman; this is increasing true for women that I have regular intercourse with.


Learning how to be sexually active without ejaculating is not easy. I have had my share of difficulties in the beginning and I want to share a few of those difficulties with you now.

  • -      When I first began practicing sex without climaxing, the sexual energy would not go away. Instead, it would stay trapped within me and would begin to mess with my head and my emotions. I would become easily frustrated, restless and short tempered. It seemed as if my day would begin and end with a headache that just would not go away. The women I dated did not take to kindly to my desires to prevent ejaculation either. They were not able to be fully satisfied and they began to experience the same headaches, restlessness and frustration as I did. This caused me to give up and start ejaculating again during sex, which I will admit was pretty nice at the time.
  • -      Blue balls. Any man who is physically mature enough for sex knows what this is and how painful it can be.
  • -          It was also difficult to explain to women that I did not want to ejaculate and that it had nothing to do with them.


I know there are two big questions most of you are going to have:
-      How did I get the hang of it?
-      How did I learn not to ejaculate and start getting all these benefits?

The answer is going to surprise most of you. It was by pure accident. I was having sex with one of my former partners, who would go absolutely wild when she had anal sex and wanted me to engage in anal sex with her. I am not a prude, but was a little thrown off by this and was trying to figure out how anal sex would really benefit me?

Note: Unfortunately, it is a big taboo for heterosexual men to play with their ass. My hope is that by being open about this, more men will become accepting about the idea of anal stimulation and sex, both through giving and receiving. The benefits and orgasms of this are endless. By following my blogs, articles and TAO you can easily learn. The benefits are not only for you, your wife and female partners will benefit sexually (and in daily life) big time….!!!! And before anyone jumps to any misplaced conclusion about me, yes I am Hetero!!!!

I went to de Slaunge for a prostate massage. After I bought a prostate massage toy; G Rider from Nexus, plugs etc. etc. I went to Maya (shemale) from TNT (www.thenewtantra.com) for help learning what to do, how to do it and to understand the meaning behind it. I practiced alone a lot at first. In the beginning I didn’t really feel to much other than a pressure within my anus, but out of the blue it started to get really great! I was suddenly getting increasingly horny and the orgasms I was experiencing without ejaculating were nothing short of amazing.

Finally, I got to the point where I wanted to engage in anal sex (to me)with women. I followed several workshops with TNT and began dating several women within the TNT network. The women within TNT have a deep desire for men who do not ejaculate. The reason for this is because typically, men who do not ejaculate have greater stamina and sexual performance than those who do not resist the urge to ejaculate. The women I am with now engage in anal play with me and they feel the differences as well.

One major factor that I credit to my success is the art of TAO. Through it I learned to circulate my inner energy (micro orbit) as well as direct my energies (8 elements). The 8 elements focus primarily on the Belly. Through this understanding I have found the ability to deeper, longer, stronger orasims and awareness.

To be honest, there is so much more to tell and learn and I want to share my experience and knowledge with those who also wish to learn. I will also explain more about my experiences with anal play and how I was able to use it to my advantage.


Innerlijke Glimlach werkboek van Inge Maassen Senior TAO teacher Den Haag Nederland



Innerlijke Glimlach werkboek van Inge Maassen Senior TAO teacher Den Haag Nederland


http://www.healingdao.nl/wp-content/uploads/Basis_I_-_Glimlach_Klanken1.pdf


Six Healing sounds By Mantak Chia

Six Healing sounds By Mantak Chia

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_yMHHhxwlt4